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		<title>New Year&#8217;s Resolution: To a Healthy Relationship</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Jan 2012 00:12:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA['Tis the season in my office that I have more visits from family members, parents and adult children, who are trying to resolve festering hurts.  Today I read a review of a new book on an old theme:  toxic parents. Admittedly, there are abusive and emotionally destructive people who become parents. But many parent-child relationships can improve.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=drbhibbs.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6344937&amp;post=591&amp;subd=drbhibbs&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Loyalty, Lies and Pedophilia: Best Lessons from Penn State</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Nov 2011 20:39:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Like many of us, I've spent the past week devouring the unfolding child molestation scandal involving Penn State. I've also culled what I consider the best ideas and lessons we might draw from this sordid affair that has indicted Sandusky on felony charges, and led to the firing of Joe Paterno, as well as Penn State's President, and other university administrators. While court proceedings may eventually answer the  legal (rather than moral) issues of Guilt vs. Innocence  it's up to you and me to learn from this Category 5 moral disaster.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=drbhibbs.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6344937&amp;post=399&amp;subd=drbhibbs&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Navigating Emotional Transitions in the Second Half of Life</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Oct 2011 13:53:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This week Paul Hilt and I will  be presenting an enrichment workshop for the Friends Life Care community on the topic of Navigating Transitions in the Second Half of Life. Although we often anticipate new goals and meaning, more leisure time, and improved social connections in the second half of life; personal and family transitions can make it feel more like a game of 52-card pickup.  There are individual challenges, and then the relationship skills needed to negotiate them fairly. <img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=drbhibbs.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6344937&amp;post=393&amp;subd=drbhibbs&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Steve Jobs&#8217;s Biological Father&#8230;and the Reunion That Wasn&#8217;t</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Oct 2011 15:06:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Mr. Jandali's estrangement from his famous biological children may reflect the sad reality of many unwed or divorced fathers of the 1950's and '60's. It's easy to judge those fathers' "choices,"  without understanding their context. <img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=drbhibbs.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6344937&amp;post=389&amp;subd=drbhibbs&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>The Beatles and Football Fairness</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Sep 2011 06:17:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Beatles got it right. "Try to see it my way...we can work it out ..." Perspective taking is the first step on the way to working out your differences.  This week I interrupted a contentious argument a couple was having in my office,  by throwing the husband a foam football. "You're getting nowhere, so let's play a game," I directed. <img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=drbhibbs.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6344937&amp;post=379&amp;subd=drbhibbs&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Free at Last: Marital Declarations on July the Fourth</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Jul 2011 17:18:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I'm marriage-friendly and  treat many couples whose marriages survive infidelity. Yet I find no reason to celebrate the recent turn of events in the Strauss-Kahn case, founded on the realities that power trumps fairness to the victim or loyalty to the marriage.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=drbhibbs.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6344937&amp;post=374&amp;subd=drbhibbs&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>The Psyches of Schwarzenegger &amp; IMF Chief</title>
		<link>http://drbhibbs.wordpress.com/2011/05/20/the-psyches-of-schwarzenegger-imf-chief/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 May 2011 13:04:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This week on NBC , I gave an interview on the first dogs of summer: Arnold Schwarzenegger and the IMF head, Dominique Strauss-Kahn. What is it about these alpha males that leads to their infidelities?  As I said on air, these guys get a lot of practice.  Practice at abuse of power, practice at abuse [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=drbhibbs.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6344937&amp;post=369&amp;subd=drbhibbs&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Coping with Job Loss (You Are Not Your Title)</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 May 2011 00:05:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tonight on Fox News, I'll be talking about how to cope with job loss. The past couple of years reflect an historically high level of job loss and unemployment. With any loss, there are stages of grief and recovery. The first stage of job loss involves managing your feelings.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=drbhibbs.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6344937&amp;post=358&amp;subd=drbhibbs&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>What Tiger-Mother Forgot: The Child You Didn&#8217;t Expect</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Apr 2011 15:46:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There's a faulty premise underlying the Tiger-Mother.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=drbhibbs.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6344937&amp;post=352&amp;subd=drbhibbs&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Parents: To Test or Not to Test&#8211;Home Drug Kits</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Mar 2011 00:40:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Wednesday (3/30/11) on the 10 p.m.  TV29-FOXNEW channel, I’ll be a discussant on the pros and cons of at-home drug testing. Parents can now buy at-home drug testing kits, from around $15-$30. Here's the pitch to worried (or suspicious) parents of teens:  “I really care about you, and by buying this kit, you now have an excuse with your friends to avoid drug use, because you'll get caught. ” What’s wrong with this pitch?<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=drbhibbs.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6344937&amp;post=350&amp;subd=drbhibbs&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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